A. Ask for referrals from a friend.
B. Budget; What can I afford?
C. Checklist: Caterer; Centerpieces; Candle lighting ceremony; Cake; Challah
D. Develop a plan of attack
E. Enjoy the process – don’t stress out
F. Frugal yet still fabulous
G. Games; Give-aways; Goody bags
H. Harmony
I. Invitations…E-vites, e-responses
J. Justify your needs/expenses; look at priorities and don’t forget to compromise
K. Kids…don’t forget to consider what they want
L. Location, Location, Location…is it convenient for you and others
M. Music – live vs. DJ
N. Neighbors. Great for extra freezer space, especially if you are doing your own baking, etc.
O. Open-minded yet objective; everyone wants things “their” way
P. Party planner…consider help from professional event planners
Q. Quiet time…take a nap, watch Oprah, smell the flowers
R. Research; Do your homework
S. Solicit your friends/relatives to help…don’t be afraid to ask
T. Theme; Do you have one?
U. Understanding your spouse/child’s point-of-view
V. Voice your opinion but don’t make it a competition…again, compromise
W. Welcome your out-of-towners. Remember, they spent money to come to your event
X. X-Ray…put the spotlight on the main reason/purpose for the party in the first place
Y. You deserve a pat on the back for getting it done!
Z. ZEN – Peace of mind